Debra Winger, the captivating actress who lit up Hollywood in the ’70s and ’80s with her raw talent, has lived a life full of twists and triumphs. From a harrowing accident that nearly ended her life to walking away from a flourishing acting career to focus on her family and passions, her story is a testament to resilience and self-discovery.
Born on May 16, 1955, in Cleveland, Ohio, Winger was a precocious child, graduating high school at just 15 and enrolling in college to study criminology. But a brush with death at 17 changed everything. While working at an amusement park in California, a freak accident left her with a brain hemorrhage, partial paralysis, and blindness on one side. Doctors warned she might never walk again, but after months of recovery, Winger emerged with a renewed determination to follow her passion: acting.







Her move to Los Angeles paved the way for her breakout role as Wonder Woman’s younger sister, Drusilla, on TV. Hollywood soon took notice of her undeniable talent. In 1980, she became a household name after starring opposite John Travolta in Urban Cowboy. Her unforgettable performance as Sissy, a feisty honky-tonk queen, catapulted her to stardom.
The success of Urban Cowboy opened doors to critically acclaimed roles, including An Officer and a Gentleman (1982) and Terms of Endearment (1983), both of which earned her Academy Award nominations. Known for her fierce independence, Winger never shied away from speaking her mind, even if it meant clashing with directors or turning down major roles. Yet, despite her meteoric rise, she grew increasingly disillusioned with Hollywood’s superficiality.
By the mid-1990s, Winger made the bold decision to step away from acting at the height of her career. After her third Oscar nomination for Shadowlands (1994), she focused on her personal life, including raising her three sons with her second husband, actor Arliss Howard. The couple built a fulfilling life together, blending their family and nurturing their shared love for the arts.
During her hiatus, Winger devoted herself to environmental activism, teaching, writing, and caring for her mother in her final months. Though she occasionally returned for indie films and stage performances, her main focus was living authentically. “I did a lot of interesting stuff,” she reflected. “And I didn’t feel like any of it was ‘instead of.’”
