Just as I was getting comfortable in my aisle seat—happy with the extra space I had thoughtfully chosen for the lengthy flight—I saw a couple walking by. I had no clue that this exchange would result in me giving them advice on how to confront bullies.
The woman, dressed in a luxury clothing and perhaps in her late thirties, gave off the impression that she was entitled. Mirroring her conceit, her towering, broad-shouldered spouse trailed her by a small distance. They halted immediately behind me, and the woman insisted we move seats without even exchanging pleasantries. She said she had mistakenly reserved the wrong ticket and would not sit apart from her husband.
Her tone was anything but friendly, and I was shocked at how daring she was to demand something. She scoffed and rolled her eyes, dismissing the idea that I didn’t require the entire area in my premium seat when I didn’t immediately comply. Her husband interrupted, telling me to be realistic, as if I really needed to be open.
It was startling how entitled and haughty they were, and I could sense other passengers looking at us with varying degrees of curiosity. I inhaled deeply, decided against confronting them, and then, as coolly as possible, gave them my boarding card and gave them my best wishes for a good seat. Snatching the ticket out of my fingers, the woman muttered something about conceited people sitting in first class seats. Her spouse gave her support by implying that I wasn’t deserving of it.
My annoyance increased as I moved to her designated seat in row 12. But I had better plans in mind, and I wasn’t one to cause a disturbance. I was stopped by a flight attendant who had witnessed the exchange as soon as I got to the middle seat in row 12. The couple had swindled me out of my seat, she said, as they were both meant to be in row 12.
I gave her a smile and told her I had a strategy to make things work out for the better. I knew it would be worth it even if my middle seat wasn’t quite as comfortable as the expensive one I had given up. While planning my next move, I let the couple believe they had won.
After the flight had calmed down for an hour, I motioned to the flight attendant and asked to talk to the chief purser. I reported the issue to the purser, who listened intently and made sure to emphasize how the pair had tricked me into swapping seats. She promised to take care of it and thanked me for bringing it to her notice.
After a short while, she came back with a proposal: I could take my original seat back or receive a substantial amount of airline miles, which could be used for upgrades on my next three flights. I knew that the miles would be worth more than the difference between this flight’s premium and economy classes, so I went with them.
As the flight went on, I observed movement near the couple’s seat in row 3. They were confronted about their dishonesty by the purser and another flight attendant. She warned them that their actions were against airline rules and that they would be subject to repercussions, which might include being put on the no-fly list while an investigation was underway.
As the woman attempted to defend herself, the color left her cheeks. She frantically explained that they weren’t even married; instead, she was his mistress, and they were having an affair.
After landing, I grabbed my stuff and couldn’t help but take one more look at the couple. Their arrogant looks gave way to a mixture of rage and embarrassment when they realized they would have to deal with fallout long beyond the trip. As I strolled through the airport, a feeling of fulfillment enveloped me.
In my thirty-three years of existence, I’ve discovered that sometimes, getting even doesn’t mean staging a grand performance; rather, it means bearing witness to those who believe they’ve won as they realize how terribly wrong they were. And that’s the method!